The Power of Why: How Positive Questions Can Transform Your Life
/in Communication Skills, Business, Coaching, Relationships, Self Development/by Jeremy GatesClean Language: A Brief Overview
/in Relationships, Communication Skills, Therapy, Work Relationships/by Jeremy GatesTaking the Headache out of Household Chores
/in Communication Skills, Listening Skills, Relationships/by Jeremy GatesDomestic duties are shared responsibilities that too often get generalised rather than clarified. Here are some simple tips to keeping things clean.
Some Key Questions to Answer Before Living Together
/in Communication Skills, Family Relationships, Relationships/by Jeremy GatesThere are important conversations you need to have before moving in together. When it comes to the business of cohabitation love is not enough.
A Comprehensive Guide to Resolving Historical Grievances in Relationships
/in Communication Skills, Gottman Method, Non Violent Communication, Relationships/by Jeremy GatesHow to Discuss Difficult Topics with Your Partner: A Step-by-Step Guide
/in Communication Skills, Gottman Method, Non Violent Communication, Relationships/by Jeremy GatesUse these steps, sometimes in a row – sometimes in a non-linear fashion, to enhance connection during difficult conversations.
Cooling Conflict with Non-Defensive Listening
/in Communication Skills, Listening Skills, Non Violent Communication, Relationships/by Jeremy GatesNon-Defensive listening is a key skill in conflict resolution and a wonderful tool to support the people we care about. It is a co-regulation technique that recognises the need to establish safety in the heart and mind of the other so they can lift up and out of Fight or Flight.
Sales Psychology for Ethical Sales
/in Communication Skills, Business, Leadership, Relationships, Sales, Work Relationships/by Jeremy GatesSales is all about connecting with people and helping them to connect with the feeling that they’re making the right choice buying from you. This article outlines some principles to make that easier.
Thriving Through Separation: a Compassionate Guide for Co-Parents
/in Coaching, Communication Skills, Family Relationships/by Jeremy GatesCo-parenting is hard at any time – when separated it becomes more difficult than ever. This guide presents some useful tips to make the new normal a little easier.
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